Wednesday, May 15, 2013

Welcome to the world, Brennan!

About 10 minutes old

Lil B meeting HK 'Aunties' - 1 day old
On Sunday, March 10th, at 11:27pm, Brennan William Foley was born.  We chose the name because Brennan is Mike's middle name, and his grandmother's maiden name, and William is Mike's dad's name.

Lil B (as we seem to call him) is a sweet boy with a wonderful temperament.  I have been loving these early weeks with him and admittedly neglecting my blog posts because of it.

Our beautiful room.
View from our balcony
As posted before (Pregnancy Princess), the hospital was a luxurious experience with delicious meals we chose by menu, 24 hour 'bell' service support of midwives and nurses, and private room accommodations where Mike had his own pull out bed to stay the nights with us.  In a challenging time with lots to learn, we couldn't have asked for anything more.

Weekly update photo to family
Weekly update photo to family
In many ways (despite the 5-star hospital), it's tough having a baby, a first baby, so far from home.  To stay connected, we send weekly photos and updates home to family.  It's a small reconciliation for having their grandson/nephew/cousin so far away.  A few times in these updates I have included short videos for them to see Lil B in action.  If you're interested, here are the links:
Loved having mom & dad here for Lil B's arrival!
4 weeks video link
5 weeks video link
8 weeks video link

The first month or so of Brennan's life is a bit of a haze.  Yes, there were some sleepless nights and challenges with feeding and figuring out this whole parenting thing... but generally it was a blissful haze.  Now days are becoming more predictable and lil B is becoming more interactive and smiley, it's even more wonderful.  I'll let the photos tell the rest of the story, as they are so much more fun than words.



One day old, holding dad's finger
About 1 week old
Big Smiles! 7 weeks

Bath time! 7 weeks
Getting chunky... as babies should!

Precious big 'good morning' smiles!

Beautiful boy - 8 weeks old
Playing with Dad - 9 weeks old
Playing with mom - 9 weeks old


Looking out on our big city!




Monday, April 29, 2013

Terry & Sandra do the Kong

After a 2 month hiatus, it's time to get back to blogging... :)

My parents were here to visit around the birth of their grand-baby (baby will be a separate blog entry all together).  I was over 9 months pregnant and had limited energy and mobility, but they still seemed to love the city and get lots of touring in (some with and some without me).

I wanted to do an entry of their impressions of Hong Kong.  I wrote an email to them, asking them for some ideas and a couple of photos.  My mom wrote back several emails of ideas and pictures... not the few bullet points I was expecting. (Why would I expect my mom to be concise?  This is a family trait that Foley is still trying to train me out of... getting rid of my long-winded stories and phone messages... As per usual, I digress.)

SO, I've decided to post my mom's words and pictures as a 'guest entry' here.  She does a great job identifying some of the wonderful surprises HK has.


Such a dense city population… and yet we seldom felt crowded. Every crevice is used.
Below are SANDRA'S TOP 10 HIGHLIGHTS OF HONG KONG 
Written by Sandra Fielder. 
Photos by Terry and Sandra Fielder.


I'm a country girl, love the great outdoors and am generally not a fan of cities at all. That is why my enjoyment of Hong Kong surprised me.

(1)  I did like the fact that because of the vertical nature of the city, and the efficient transport, you could be anywhere and everywhere very quickly.
Mom in alley-way costume market
Lippo Centre -
designed as Koalas climbing bamboo.

(2)  I loved the diversity of the food and services, the neat little shops tucked between buildings, or on the 33 floor of a high rise, or right next to the escalator... pretty much wherever you looked.

(3)  I was pleasantly surprised by the green space amidst the sea of high rises. I totally loved the Botanical/ Zoological Garden, the Peak and Victoria Gardens, and Hong Kong Park.

Mom & Dad with Money Tree
(4)  The traffic freaked me out not only because of driving on the left hand side , and the speed, but also all the hairpin turns because we were on a mountain. It was a bit like riding a roller coaster. Our taxi would be driving along a road and all of sudden veer off on this little ramp that would take us to another road. Those drivers had to learn very complex street patterns to know where to go.

(5)  Another interesting fact: Hong Kong residents have the second longest life expectancy (82.12 years), next to Japan (83.91years) (Canada - #12 in the world at 81.48 years) This amazed me that people would be healthier and live longer on the average considering the high intensity population, pollution etc. Spoke loudly to me about some of the chinese practices like meditation and Tai Chi that still the mind amid a busy bustling metropolis. 

(6)  Yummmm... Dim Sum at the Crystal Jade Restaurant. 

Yummy Dim Sum
Hole for the dragons on the mountains to access the harbour
(7)  The unique and interesting sky scraper designs... truly awesome and inspiring. As we were travelling over to Stanley (great shopping) we saw a couple of skyscrapers with BIG holes left right through the middle of them. Of course it made perfect sense when we learned that the holes were to let the 9 dragons from the mountains pass through on their way to the harbour to drink. There were other expressions of strong Chinese belief in the structure and lay out of the buildings following the Feng Shui thinking.

Hong Kong Family
(8)  Meeting Trish and Mike's "Hong Kong family" -their fun loving friends - kindred spirits. You could feel the love and energy, and respect among them. They welcomed us with a lovely chinese dinner chocked full of good food and laughter. They offered to tour me around, take me to yoga classes, etc., even though they were all working ... It was great to put faces to Trish's stories.

Mom & Dad with Connie
(9)  I loved Connie (Mike & Trish's domestic helper) and how good she took care of all of us. We would go out touring or shopping or whatever, come home and put our feet up and wait for dinner to be prepared and served. The laundry was always done. I felt soooo spoiled.

(10)  By far my most wonderful and memorable moments were those spent with Brennan. Hospital stay was impressive, very patient focused, again very efficient and friendly.  All the intriguing sites and sounds of the city paled when we met our precious little grandson. Time stood still.  We could watch him for countless hours, absolutely mesmerized and totally in love. A very important part of what made Hong Kong so delightful.













Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Baby Shower - HK Style

Back Row - Natasha, Rina, Me, Ayu, Mel, Sally, Beth. Front Row - Naomi, Chi

























Beth, Rina, Natasha
I honestly look forward to attending showers.  Whether they are wedding showers or baby showers, you're inevitably celebrating a big life event with someone that you love... however, I have never been comfortable to be on the receiving side of such events.  I managed to kibosh every mention of a shower prior to our wedding, and I had fully intended to avoid all showers for our first baby simply by living on the opposite side of the world to my lifelong friends and family.  My plan was genius... Enter HK friends: Beth, Rina, and Natasha.

These girls wouldn't take 'no' for an answer.  They were insistent, and to be honest, my resolve dissipated whenever I would walk into the big baby store here and feel entirely overwhelmed at how many crazy products there are for things I didn't even know existed.  I was feeling quite scared and very out of my element with what I actually needed to do and buy in order to care for a baby, so the thought of getting some help started to have some real appeal (which I think is the whole point of a shower... late learner over here).

My wonderful friends here organized the most stunning and wonderful day!  Firstly, no one had to guess how much weight I gained, what my circumference was, or which poopy diaper had which chocolate bar smooshed in it; all games were scrapped... thank you!  Instead, the venue was a gorgeous spa on the south side of HK Island, where there was a stunning outdoor gazebo with seating, food and drink, and a dreamy set of spa chairs where we could all get various treatments done. In short, the day was heavenly.

I opened generous gifts from friends which really did have us feeling much more prepared for the little baby's arrival (I didn't even have diapers or onesies before this... amateur).  The biggest surprise of the day was an amazing video that was put together by my friends and Rina's husband, Dustin.  They contacted friends and family from home and everyone who sent back a video was included with their well wishes and words of advice.  The video had me laughing my head off and sobbing with tears (ah, pregnancy hormones!).  If you have some time, the link is posted at the bottom of this entry...
Watching the video together and my various emotions below...


















As baby Foley is due on Saturday, and we are now far more prepared than I was, it seems like the right time to say THANK YOU!  So thank you to my friends here in HK who threw me the shower and attended the shower.  Thank you to friends and family from home who participated in the video.  Thank you for all of the kind comments on facebook from everyone and the words of encouragement over the past several months.  Being this far from home for such a big life event could be very scary... but I feel so cared for, loved and supported that I think all will be well.  My mom and dad also arrived last night, and having them here will be wonderful.

Much love to you all... and I promise to post news soon!





LINK TO VIDEO:

My friends here who orchestrated this (Rina, Beth, and Natasha) ask for you not to 'judge' them. These girls are the ones downing glasses of wine throughout the video... they are awesome and I assured them that no friends of mine would ever judge someone for being an enthusiastic drinker.  :)

You are invited to view Dustin Leitch's photo album: Trish's baby shower, Jan 27, 2013
If the link does not work, try pasting this into your browser.  Generally people struggled with opening the video on any mobile devices, but most laptops and desktops seem to open it just fine.  Enjoy
https://picasaweb.google.com/lh/sredir?uname=109489825380448122699&target=ALBUM&id=5838296766337900865&authkey=Gv1sRgCN2Or7aP_pHlgwE&invite=COeNws0D&feat=email